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…when you’re trying to figure life out.

Do you ever feel like everyone else has it all figured out and you just don’t know what you’re doing in life?

This Modern Struggle Magazine is a place for everyone who feels like this (and we all do sometimes!)

Everyone has a different modern struggle, and our content is here to relate to, give advice, and show that you aren’t alone in trying to navigate the difficulties of modern life.

Our articles cover everything from lifestyle, wellbeing, relationship, and world struggles.

We will be sharing our own personal experiences and we would love to hear from you too.

And trust us, we get it, the struggle is real…

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Hi, I’m Ally McLaren, and welcome to
This Modern Struggle Magazine…

Meet the Founder and Editor…

I created TMSM for everyone feeling a little lost in life (and honestly struggling with this modern world) for a fun, relatable, and informational space to share our struggles. 

My own modern struggles relate to mental health, body image, career, the choice not to have children, dealing with grief, and going through my 20s and approaching my 30s, including what I’ve learnt along the way.

I will be sharing more of my personal experiences, but I would love to hear from you all too about what your modern struggles are.

Sometimes this page will be serious, as who doesn’t love to complain and just vent about how hard life is, but I also want this to be a safe and fun environment, where you can relate to the content and have that feeling of ‘yes, this is me’. 

Find out more about me here!

Meet the Designer…

I also wanted This Modern Struggle Magazine to have a fun, relatable, and 70s aesthetic with a modern twist, and it does - all thanks to
Molly Clair Design. 

Molly has captured the vibe and mood of TMSM perfectly, bringing the brand to life in an aesthetically pleasing and visually stunning way. 

Pls check out her page if you are interested in her design services.

Thank you so much Molly!

Love Ally x

Meet the Team

Ally McLaren
Founder and Editor

Hi, I’m Ally.

You may have seen my writing in Mouthy Magazine or Darling Magazine. I currently work in Marketing and PR and do freelance copywriting on the side. I also have experience in journalism and feature writing for women’s magazines and national press.

When I’m not writing you can find me eating pizza, stroking my cat and watching true crime documentaries.

I started this magazine for all the fellow strugglers who feel the same way that I do; like everyone else has it all figured out and you just don’t know what you’re doing in life.

Molly Clair
Designer

Hi, I’m Molly and I created the website, branding, logo and design for This Modern Struggle Magazine. I specialise in a range of design and marketing services, particularly in branding and website design.

With nearly 10 years of experience, I've worked with large corporate clients like Warner Entertainment, as well as smaller independent businesses. I love collaborating with fellow female business owners making their brand truly stand out.

You can discover more about my design services here.

Contributors

Susan Moore
Writer

Hi, I’m Susan. You may have seen my work before in Darling Magazine’s fashion section and Tonitruale’s music column.

When I’m not writing, I can be found watching documentaries with my roommates, listening to audiobooks and drinking drinks that turn my mouth blue.

Photo credit: @bluerosetori

Chloe Jackson
Writer

Hi I’m Chloe. I have no professional experience in writing, it is simply a hobby of mine, a liberating escape from at times a chaotic claustrophobic existence. It is a way to disentangle a messy web of thoughts and feelings whilst navigating this complicated thing called life. 

When I’m not writing, which is most of the time (I need some more of that time stuff) I am a Speech and Language Therapist, I am a Mum loving my daughter from the depths of my soul whilst simultaneously hiding from her in the bathroom to devour a cake in silence. I am a 30 year old whose life, well, didn’t go to plan. My 5 year plan is now a “let’s get through today plan” and I’m okay with that. My struggles have resulted in my successes.  I now realise you cannot control the cards you are dealt, just the way you play the hand and writing has helped me to figure that out.

Ally Loyns
Writer

Ally Loyns is a Canadian poet, musician, and BPD advocate who has called Winnipeg, Manitoba home since birth. Through raw and real poetic storytelling, she has a vision to embolden the healing journeys of people with Borderline everywhere by sharing her lived experience.

To Ally, nothing holds more power than the solidarity of like-minded souls with one mutual goal: overcoming hardship via self-compassion. She strives to break stigma in hopes that sharing her story can provide comfort and/or validation to the individual reading.

Urmi Hossain
Writer

Urmi Hossain is Bengali by blood and Italian by birth. She works in the financial services industry in Canada, where she is currently residing. She is a self-published author, blogger, speaker, polyglot, and mentor.

Her first book is: Discovering your identity, a rebirth from interracial struggle.

She is an advocate of women's empowerment and very passionate about teaching and mentoring other girls and women.

She is part of the organization called Women In Leadership for the Victoria Chapter in Canada as the social media lead
She enjoys being a promoter of self-investing and personal development.
In her free time, she enjoys reading books and boxing.

Discover Urmi’s book here, connect with her on LinkedIn, visit her YouTube channel, and read her blog.

Shelby
Writer

Hi, my name is Shelby, I'm 29 and I suffer from a few chronic illnesses. As well as physical ailments, I suffer from BPD, depression and anxiety which is the thing I struggle with the most at the moment.

I love to write about my struggles and I've been doing so for years but I'm now ready to share some of my stuff. Raising awareness is what's most important to me, I don't want anyone to ever feel like they should be ashamed or alone in their struggles and that's what my Instagram mainly focuses on.

I have a degree from the University of Sheffield in English literature which also comes in handy with my writing. As well as writing, I love film and TV and I've just began to write reviews and recommended some of my favourite finds.

@sickofselfloathing

Becky Maybury
Writer

Hi, my name is Becky! 

I’m new to writing and am still not convinced it’s the greatest, however I’d like to think that my writing will be extremely down to earth and relatable so I hope to bring some weird and wonderful content to make us all feel a little more normal in this crazy world. Everyone’s situation is different and that doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing, just means we can learn and grow! 

When I’m not writing you will find me running around after my 2 gorgeous children, spending time with my friends or creating some form of arty project. Fun fact, I have a masters in Fine Art and work freelance at The New Art Gallery Walsall!

Emma-Jane Barlow
Writer

Emma-Jane Barlow (known as EJ) is a bestselling northern poet, author, content creator, songwriter, singer and creative. She has been writing poetry since the age of seven and finds comfort in writing about her life experiences. From living life through an autistic lens to the highs and lows of love, loss and everything in between, EJ's words are vulnerable, honest and rich with emotion. ​

She has performed her poetry live at several events including the C Arts Festival, Mic at the Mill, Natter, Salford Arts Theatre and Switchblade. She has also been featured in multiple anthologies including Chapters of Venus and Ink Gladiator Press. She has been quoted in Salford Now newspaper and featured live three times on BBC Radio Manchester with David Scott. 

EJ shares her artistic journey on her Instagram page @emmajanepoetry and is also the founder of the successful collaborative poetry project First Line Poets @firstlinepoets. ​In 2020, she self-published her debut book Darkness & Light, which became multiple bestsellers on Amazon, including the top 20 bestselling books for British poetry. She released her highly-anticipated second collection of poetry, Sins & Sunflowers in 2022 and was the editor of The First Line Poets Anthology. She has just released Sins & Sunflowers: Second Edition and she is exploring other creative projects to find new ways to express her love of storytelling.

Stephanie
Writer

Hi, I am Stephanie from @Poemsbystephanie1.

I have been writing poems since I was sixteen to help me with my mental health. My favourite poems to write are cinquain & soliloquies.

My moods affect my poetry but it also helps me to handle things that are going on around me. I believe poetry belongs to everyone and all voices should be heard.

NelliKong
Writer

My name is NelliKong (pen name) and I’m getting back into my love of writing. I’m from the United States and I hope to have my words touch the hearts from individuals from all the world. I hope I can bring my love of writing to life and not only jump off the page but jump into your hearts as well.

You can discover my writing on Instagram @nellikongpslams, Writers Cafe and Wordpress.

Sasi Kondru
Writer

Hi, my name’s Sasi and I’ve recently started to write quite a bit. I especially like to write poetry and short stories! In my free time, I like to read and take (very, very) long walks.

Aleena Sharif
Artist

Aleena was born in Pakistan and went to school at the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York. She graduated with a BFA and a minor in Art History.

After graduating, she exhibited her art in New York, Los Angeles, London, Italy, and Pakistan, as well as many virtual galleries.

She currently continues her practice between California and Pakistan, where she holds open studies in hope to create a safe space for nude paintings to be shown.

@aleenasharif_art

Libby Jenner
Writer

Libby actively began writing poetry during secondary school as a therapeutic outlet. Years later, her painful retellings blossomed into self-love prose, so she created an Instagram account (libbyjenner.poetry) with an intent to create an online space where poetry lovers could feel an abundance of empowerment.

In her final year of university, Libby self-published her debut poetry and prose collection called ‘don’t be shy, dearest butterfly’ and has since graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Creative Writing.

In 2023, she released the second book in this poetry series called ‘Wings Unfurled’. Now living in Brighton, she has unfurled her own wings in a city that she has made her home.

You can follow Libby and find where to buy her books here.

Lungmying Lepcha
Writer

Lungmying Lepcha is a 17th year old 12 grader hailing from the Himalayan state Sikkim. A poet in progress, she loves listening to Indie music and reading books which she reviews an eternity later.

She bets that she can occupy you the whole day with her poems and stories!

Irina Tall
Artist and Writer

Irina Tall (Novikova) is an artist, graphic artist, illustrator. She graduated from the State Academy of Slavic Cultures with a degree in art, and also has a bachelor's degree in design.

Her first personal exhibition "My soul is like a wild hawk" (2002) was held in the museum of Maxim Bagdanovich. In her works, she raises themes of ecology, and in 2005 she devoted a series of works to the Chernobyl disaster, drawing on anti-war topics. The first big series she drew was The Red Book, dedicated to rare and endangered species of animals and birds. She also writes fairy tales and poems and illustrates short stories. She draws various fantastic creatures: unicorns, animals with human faces, she especially likes the image of a man - a bird - Siren.

In 2020, she took part in Poznań Art Week. Her work has been published in magazines: Gupsophila, Harpy Hybrid Review, Little Literary Living Room and others. In 2022, her short story was included in the collection "The 50 Best Short Stories", and her poem was published in the collection of poetry "The wonders of winter".

@irina.tall111
@
irina.tall


Finola Allen
Writer


Heya! I’m Finola, aspiring writer, mental health advocate and hobby photographer— lovely to meet you!

In the past, I have worked at Equestrian stables as a volunteer but now I currently do Marketing work for a specialist FE college, which I really enjoy. Although, I’m set to go to Uni come September to study Creative Writing - eeek!

Claudia Wysocky
Writer

Claudia Wysocky, a Polish writer and poet based in New York, is known for her diverse literary creations, including fiction and poetry. Her poems, such as "Stargazing Love" and "Heaven and Hell," reflect her ability to capture the beauty of life through rich descriptions. Besides poetry, she authored "All Up in Smoke," published by "Anxiety Press." With over five years of writing experience, Claudia's work has been featured in local newspapers, magazines, and even literary journals like WordCityLit and Lothlorien Poetry Journal. Her writing is powered by her belief in art's potential to inspire positive change. Claudia also shares her personal journey and love for writing on her own blog, and she expresses her literary talent as an immigrant raised in post-communism Poland.